Junior Golf: A Parent’s Vision

In today’s Wednesday Waggle we will look at what Dad and Mom see when they consider your son’s junior golf experience. What is your vision for your son?img_0102
The full definition of vision is: a : the act or power of imagination, b (1) : mode of seeing or conceiving (2) : unusual discernment or foresight <a person of vision> c : direct mystical awareness. (Dufner photo golfdigest.com)
For now let’s look at vision as the act or power of imagination. In other words, when you close your eyes and consider your son’s junior golf career, what do you see? Yes, the possibilities are endless, but let me offer a couple of tips that may help with your focus and direction.
Help your youngster set some goals. These must be divided into short-term and long-term items. Examples of short -term goals would be practicing 3 days a week, playing twice a week, entering tournaments, making the club, junior high or high school golf team.
Long-term goals can also include some of the short-term goals depending on your son’s age and skill level. Our #1 long-term goal was ALWAYS to attend college on a golf scholarship, always be scholastically eligible and get his undergraduate degree on time!image
S3 started playing golf when he was 5 years old and as soon as he made it clear that he enjoyed golf and wanted to pursue a junior golf career, Linda and I explained the college goal. He was probably 6 or 7 years old at the time. While there is always pressure associated with any goal, S3 bought in totally and we all agreed to have FUN pursuing this goal. So we turned the pressure around and used it as fuel.
Mom and Dad I want to assure you that 1 of the greatest adventures of your life is joining your son on his junior golf endeavor! It is just so much fun! Highs and lows. Beautiful weather and horrible weather. It all adds up to years of wonderful memories that cannot be bought for any price!
And the moment of moments, the amazing end to this chapter of all our lives was when, after walking his college stage and receiving his diploma, on time and being eligible to play golf all 4 years…seeing S3 in the courtyard in his cap and gown and he saw me and said with tears in his eyes, “I did it, Dad!” And I said, “Yes, Son you sure did and I am so proud of you!” Parents, this is a lifetime moment like no other! 17 years of junior golf and college golf combining to achieve that long-term goal that seemed
light-years away when it was first discussed. Wow, how the time flew by!
Please get your vision going and ask your son to share his vision with you. Work together for a common vision, 1 you are all comfortable with. Now you can set a course full steam ahead.
See you on #1 tee with a vision for the future… Sam

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