Junior Golf: Parents Who Do This Will Advance Their Golfer’s Success

In this Monday Mulligan we will look at a major factor involved in advancing your junior golfer’s career. This should be the 1st step parents should take when considering the possibility of your daughter/son entering the wonderful world of junior golf. (image jennleforge.com)image

What Linda and I are offering here is being on the same page, being of like minds, being a unified team and working in tandem to achieve the desired goals.

3 Points To Keep In Mind:
Why both Mom and Dad need to be on the same page. Simply put, common strategies and goals keep your daughter on track and reduce or eliminate the chance for confusion. It enhances her ability to focus! Your girl will already have plenty on her mind and conflicting input from Dad and Mom is not helpful.
What happens when you are on the same page. Working together as the management team for your daughter produces a clear path for her junior golf career. Everyone knows what’s going on. Workouts, range time, putting and chipping drills, on-course/playing time and upcoming tournaments are all scheduled and everybody knows the who, what, when and where of all her commitments.
Why Dad and Mom must stay on the same page. Kids need structure. They actually like structure even though at times, they may complain about it. Once you establish an initial structure, stay with it. Your girl will like the security of knowing her complete junior golf schedule. The family can plan around the golf calendar. This planning can act as a baseline for the complete calendar of all family events. (image ottowa citizen)

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Here’s a real-life example of what happens when parents are not on the same page. This occurred a couple of years ago in 1 of our parenting classes and the topic was healthy eating. We were going over some basics like eating less processed foods and adding more fruits and veggies to the family’s meal plans. A young mom raised her hand and said, “My 7 year old son will not eat any green vegetables. What can I do?”

Linda then asked 1 of the great questions in the history of our parenting classes, “Does your husband eat green vegetables?”
Wow! The look on the young Mom’s face and the silence that briefly followed told the story. Finally she was able to say, “No, he won’t touch them.” The approach to address the issue as Linda immediately offered, was for the Mom and her husband to have a private conversation to see if they could get on the same page, a better page for their young son and family. Hubby, will you please make an effort to eat some green veggies, without whining and complaining and set a healthy example for your son? That’s how easy it is! Just ask your spouse for some help. Ask them to come alongside you.

Our kid’s brains are sponges they are soaking up everything we say and do. We are setting examples, good and not so good, every minute. Let’s leave a positive legacy for our junior golfers. Parents, have that meeting today and get on the same page. It works!

See you on #1 tee with like minds… Sam

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